Friday, December 6, 2013

Lessons from a marriage

I had walked into my marriage like any other young girl full of dreams and anticipation of a new life with my best friend and now husband. But after years today I can say that the crux of marriage is learning as much as it is love and these are a few of my lessons from this marriage, hope it keeps them coming for life:

  • Its one thing to be in love and quite another to set up a household and have it running.
  • One of the best thing a marriage leads to is KIDS who keep the lessons for life coming.
  • Things are never as bad as they seem and as rosy as they are in Hindi films and Ekta Kapoor soaps.
  • The best treatment for your spouse is equality and no prejudice.
  • Sharing is not always caring , having a space of your own and giving the spouse the space is as important too.
  • Happiness is not always GRAND and milestone types it is more like in small every day joys and more of a road trip types. keep anticipating the view round the next curve.
  • keep learning at the job with your co-student.

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COMPANIONS CALLED BOOKS

To Kill a Mockingbird
The Catcher in the Rye
Animal Farm
The Alchemist
One Hundred Years of Solitude
Romeo and Juliet
Frankenstein
The Odyssey
The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn
The Count of Monte Cristo
Eat, Pray, Love
Lolita
The Da Vinci Code
The Kite Runner
The Silence of the Lambs
The Diary of a Young Girl
Pride and Prejudice
Jane Eyre
The Notebook
Gone With the Wind
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The Human Bean Cafe, Ontario
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